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Keep it "Reel"?

Reel (v) -  means to behave in a violent disorderly manner

 I know what’s it’s like to live in a house with someone and still feel lonely. We continue to adjust our lives to show our love and keep the peace; yet they ignore it and continue controlling or overpowering us. Not realizing we are being what a true wife or husband should be and that’s being submissive (keeping confrontation and chaos out of the house); and being the help the other one needs.



Being in a relationship is not about power, dominance or control. If you are doing these things (which many don’t realize until that person is gone) then STOP it. Ladies, I’m talking about many of you. Recently I have had conversations with women who feel they have a right to degrade their husbands, clean out the checking account, and refuse to do anything around the house etc (being vindictive). No one deserves that type of treatment, especially when they have done nothing but show you over and over they care – by their actions.


I am appalled at how young women today (and some old) act. It might please your friends, but it doesn’t please God. No one wants to be alone or lonely; but to continue controlling another with your selfish ways, will lead to relationships that will fail ~ one after another! Again we don’t see our behavior, nor do we want to admit we are at fault for any of the chaos


I will say 95% of husbands love their wives and are not actually seeking another woman; it’s your insecurities that are making you feel that way (most of it stems from your past or a past relationship you are still re-living), not his! If you have not healed from your past or not aware and find yourself always angry about something, the change needs to begin with you; in which only God can change people so seek the bible, a good spiritual mentor; and begin anew before you encounter being in a healthy relationship!

If either wife or husband is constantly verbally abusing or physically abusing their spouse; then definitely get out of the relationship. However, as I mentioned previously, a good man will show you by his actions, he cares ~ as well as a good woman.

Be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ (the Messiah, the Anointed One). Wives, be subject (be submissive and adapt yourselves) to your own husbands as [a service] to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife as Christ is the Head of the church, Himself the Savior of [His] body. As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her, Ephesians 5:21-25 AMP


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