Having a baby out of wed-lock can be a load to bear as well as raising them alone! It's not foolish to wait until you get married to have sex. It is foolish to have sex before you get married!
You ask, why should you get married before sex? We are creating a generation of children who do not know how to have healthy relationships as well as instilling in them respect, morals and values. It's also necessary to have two people in a relationship; because one compliments the other in raising children, educating your children, and loving your children so they too can pass on the family values!
There is no such thing as old-fashion parenting! To value your child's well being, education, spiritual growth and health is not a thing of the past. By marrying in the presence of God and man, before anyone has sex and children, it will drastically reduce sexual diseases, illegitimate children, parental neglect, and government assistance.
We make mistakes in life, but choosing to get pregnant is not a way to trap a man. It is selfish, immoral, and speaks insecurity. Your children are not toys we play with, but human beings who, again, need nurturing, educated, loved and to feel secure!
So become a woman of spirituality, strength, wisdom, confidence, and grandeur~ then you will attract the same in a man!
So become a woman of spirituality, strength, wisdom, confidence, and grandeur~ then you will attract the same in a man!
Everything is permissible (allowable and lawful) for me; but not all things are helpful (good for me to do, expedient and profitable when considered with other things). Everything is lawful for me, but I will not become the slave of anything or be brought under its power. Food [is intended] for the stomach and the stomach for food, but God will finally end [the functions of] both and bring them to nothing. The body is not intended for sexual immorality, but [is intended] for the Lord, and the Lord [is intended] for the body [to save, sanctify, and raise it again]...........You were bought with a price [purchased with a preciousness and paid for, made His own]. So then, honor God and bring glory to Him in your body. I Corinthians 6:12-20 AMP
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