Do I Fit?

What does it take to be a true friend? Are you there through thick and thin, good times and bad times, and winning and losing? You give and take in love! In any true friendship; one compliments the other! There is a balance that is meant to be that way; but we have to first acknowledge our differences and weaknesses; and focus on the positive in each other! When we do, we take notice of the gifts in our spouse and grab hold, so you both can magnify it; and diminish the other!

It's like the missing piece of a puzzle, that is an old cliche; however, it is the only example I can use to allow you to get the picture of marriage. God made woman out of the rib of Adam. They are opposites, but the ribs fit perfectly together to make one! She is what he needs, and he is what she needs! There, it fits perfect! 

We all have this gift in us called intuition! It assist you with choices that can help or hinder your growth and relationships! If you are not aware of it, tune in to that channel and turn up the volume so that you can!  

You cannot tell that person they are not what you need or want, if you are broken into pieces yourself! No, we are not perfect; but we serve a God who is and with his help, we allow Him to mold and shape us into a "best friend" we want to be and should be, so that we draw that same energy, likeness and maturity to us! 

Relationships do take time and an effort on your part to be the best you can be! 

Marriage is not antiquated, old school, or obsolete! It is a sacred unity bestowed on us from the love of God to produce seeds of greatness! His love is so powerful, nothing can penetrate it! It is love that created you, and anything God creates, it's created for success, not failure! 

²² Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.²³ For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.²⁴ Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.

²⁵ Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, ²⁶ that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, ²⁷ so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. ²⁸ In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. ²⁹ For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, ³⁰ because we are members of his body. ³¹ “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” ³² This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. ³³ However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. (Ephesians 5:22-33 ESV)

It's important to elaborate on sex before marriage! It is not penetrating into the minds of others, when we say fornication - so I'm going to present it to you this way "IT'S SIN"! Sin is sin whether we want to justify the levels of it. Some believe murder is more profound than over eating! NOT, both lead to destruction and God views them all as SIN!. However, when we become born again, we are forgiven of our sins; but we also choose to do what’s right in the eyes of God! 

                                                                             I Corinthians 6:18

Everything we do and do not do, God sees and knows our needs, but if you will not allow Him to get involved, then there will always be a disconnect in your relationships and marriages (True Friendship) that you feel has no hope ~ Think again! God is a God who can do anything but fail!