Have you drove to work, got to your destination, and did not recall actually driving there? I have, and it is a weird feeling! Not all the time, but most of the time, our minds wander when our life is routine, or we mimic a zombie lifestyle! We travel that same road so often, we can do it in our sleep per say!
Yes our babies need stability, so putting them to bed every night at the same time, eating meals at the same time, and of course getting to school, work, and church on time is important, so please don’t misinterpret my point! The reason many of us establish a set schedule is to stay organized! And Yes, I agree with having a schedule; however, how many of us are willing to alter it just a little bit?
If God commands you to go another way to work or going home, would you obey?
26 Now an angel of the Lord said to Philip, “Rise and go toward the south to the road that goes down from Jerusalem to Gaza.” This is a desert place. 27 And he rose and went. And there was an Ethiopian, a eunuch, a court official of Candace, queen of the Ethiopians, who was in charge of all her treasure. He had come to Jerusalem to worship 28 and was returning, seated in his chariot, and he was reading the prophet Isaiah. 29 And the Spirit said to Philip, “Go over and join this chariot.” 30 So Philip ran to him and heard him reading Isaiah the prophet and asked, “Do you understand what you are reading?” 31 And he said,“How can I, unless someone guides me?” And he invited Philip to come up and sit with him. 32 Now the passage of the Scripture that he was reading was this:
“Like a sheep he was led to the slaughter
and like a lamb before its shearer is silent,
so he opens not his mouth.
33 In his humiliation justice was denied him.
Who can describe his generation?
For his life is taken away from the earth.”
and like a lamb before its shearer is silent,
so he opens not his mouth.
33 In his humiliation justice was denied him.
Who can describe his generation?
For his life is taken away from the earth.”
34 And the eunuch said to Philip, “About whom, I ask you, does the prophet say this, about himself or about someone else?” 35 Then Philip opened his mouth, and beginning with this Scripture he told him the good news about Jesus. 36 And as they were going along the road they came to some water, and the eunuch said, “See, here is water! What prevents me from being baptized?” 38 And he commanded the chariot to stop, and they both went down into the water, Philip and the eunuch, and he baptized him. 39 And when they came up out of the water,the Spirit of the Lord carried Philip away, and the eunuch saw him no more, and went on his way rejoicing. 40 But Philip found himself at Azotus, and as he passed through he preached the gospel to all the towns until he came to Caesarea. (Acts 8:26-40 ESV)
My point is our family is a ministry also, but when the children grow up and leave home, what now? I've seen and continue to witness parents who focus ALL of their attention on their children. When that time comes to be an empty nester, they are at a serious loss! They don't know who they are, what they truly enjoying doing anymore; or how to begin a life outside of their children!
This is a multi-generational women's retreat established at Loyola University Chicago!
Establishing anything in life, whether it be a parent, a pastor, a professor in college, or a commercial fisherman requires a balance of family time, recreational time, and independent time! If not, you lose sight of what it is to live, give, and receive! (I do understand some experience unforeseen sickness, and other hiccups that life brings, but even then, do not stay in a rut of whoa is me and not live).
Widen your horizons just a little! If you see a neighbor who is carrying in groceries offer to help; if your children are of age to help, bring them with you! The girls at work want to go on a weekend retreat and offer to pay your way as well, don't think about it too long, because God is not the author of confusion. You either accept or decline, depending on your family relationships or husband to care for the children. Now when the time comes for him to go on a weekend fishing trip with some friends, you return the favor so he can get away also. It's good to have friends and recreational things outside of the home. However, it's essential to instill in your children values and morals that impact others as well as their own!
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